Best Ever Letter Written from Father To his SON - Rao Talha

Hi Rao Talha !

Being a dad, I've noticed an absolute and direct correlation between being a parent and being an entrepreneur. It changes you for the better, but that doesn't mean it doesn't come with its own set of challenges along the way.

When you're starting out, you're excited but scared at the same time. You lose countless hours of sleep and you don't always know what to do next. Sometimes you just need a break, and other times you can't imagine spending any time away from it. It disrupts your life, but it improves it at the same time.

Then somehow, you get through those early stages and you begin to see the results of your hard work. As it grows, so do you - but new sets of challenges arise at the same time. Things don't always go according to plan, you get stressed, and you can go from having zero energy to being full of energy and pride, all within a 24 hour time period.

But if there's one thing I learned about business and parenthood more than anything else it is this:

It takes massive patience.

Sure, it takes hustle too, but I don't really like that term because too many entrepreneurs believe "hustle" is just all about working hard and feeling busy, when really it comes down to what you do and how it's moving the needle.

There's a common belief that you have to work yourself to the ground, sacrifice all sleep and neglect your loved ones in order to succeed, and I don't believe that. Not one bit. Especially that last part.

I do believe in choosing your priorities wisely, being conscious about where you spend your time and always playing for maximum output (not maximum input).

And most importantly, understanding that you need to be patient, like a parent who wants to stay sane throughout the entire journey.

If you're here hoping for a quick buck or to get rich overnight, I'm sorry. You're on the wrong email list and I invite you to click on the unsubscribe button at the bottom of this email so I don't waste your time.

But, if you're ready to nurture and develop your business (or as entrepreneurs like to call it, your baby) into a fully developed part of your life that you and others around you can be proud of...well, you're in the right place.

Computer Science Vs. CSS (Central Superior Services)

Computer Science Vs. CSS (Central Superior Services)

I was having two options a day ago, whether I go for CSS or Computer Science Field.

Verily I selected and made future plans right after my matriculation and I decided at that time, I will become Computer Science. But I got distracted. I was losing my dreams and aims that I had. It's a life, people lost the way and find that lost way or change the journey. What I did? I tried to find the way which I lost by trends.

I thought deeply in a separate room, all alone. What if I become CSS Officer or Computer Scientist. Let me share it with you. Please correct me where you feel something wrong.

CSS:
I thought If I become CSS Officer then what next? I will have Money, Power, Protocol and will do what I could. I'll have a lot of money, power, protocol,facilities (everyone wish for, nature of human) and yes I'll serve nation too but who will allow me. And then 'll become older and older, will be retired, will have kids and their kids then I'll die that's it. If an officer who would be senior to me, said me to do wrong, I'll have to say Yes, Sir! . Sorry to say, is there any honesty too? If your senior is not then what would I do? ....

I'll have a lot of responsibilities as well, will I able to give proper time to my family and kids? I'll go at 6 and return at 4. This is how my life will go? Well, I must say it's really a great filed and I know I can do it. I believe on myself enough... I mean What else I'll able to do out of the box? Any guesses? Theories to make me understand? A lot to discuss but post going long...

Final is that I inspired by my cousin, who is going to be an CSS Officer InshALLAH, Was I interested in this field before my cousin? No, I am forced to take interest in this field because of it's attraction and charm (money as well). In which thing I was interested before fortunately without following trend? was that CSS? Absolutely No. It was Computer..... It is Computer...

Computer Science:
I am more interested in this field. I am interested not because everyone is in this field, I am not loving it because it's a trend. I didn't had a single friend from this field nor relatives. It's my love towards it. I faced a lot of obsession regarding this field but I listened no one. I should follow what my heart says to me not the trend or people.

I thought if I become a computer scientist or a programmer then I can change lives and life style of people. May be I am the one who will bring a flood in IT. May be I am the next one who will bring more reliable technology than Iphone , Apple, Samsung. May be I am the one who will be called side by side with Steve , Mark, Bill gates, etc Why I shouldn't go out of the box? why I shouldn't mark my name on the earth, so generations could remember me? Why I couldn't be the ideal whose quotes will be share with proud? They are humans then I am too...

I'll have a freedom to go anywhere, to do anything, work when I wish to. People would say Yes, Sir! If I would late, not a big thing, If I would on a leave, not a big thing. I can go at 8:05 AM and return on anytime even 8:05 AM I'll give proper time to my kids and family. It's for sure, I'll have money, cars, fame employee. Yes, I'll be lack of power that CSS have, but I'll have a power to change world/ I will drop and raise Tech to the next level. If something wrong, I'll do, no one can stop me, no seiour over my head to stop me.

I've been using products of others, now other will use mine. I can be Entrepreneur. I am in 2nd year of ICS. I am still having ideas, ideas which can break the rope. I've a purpose of my life otherwise GOD do not need people, there are many but everyone has a role in the play and purpose of their life. Why we are far from IT, why we are in minorities. Who will grow the number? Perfect Digital Marketer? Entrepreneur? Programmers? Security? SEM? SEO? Freelancer? Who will bring them? May be I am the one who will make it.

I rejected CSS and Selected Computer... 

By: Shahzaib Shafi

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Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

Must Read, Story of a Pakistani Living in USA, How true :)

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

As the dream of most parents I had acquired a degree in

Software Engineering and joined a company based in USA, the
land of braves and opportunity. When I arrived in the USA, it
was as if a dream had come true.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

Here at last I was in the place where I want to be. I decided I
would be staying in this country for about Five years in which
time I would have earned enough money to settle down in Pakistan.
My father was a government employee and after his retirement,
the only asset he could acquire was a decent one bedroom flat.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

I wanted to do some thing more than him. I started feeling
homesick and lonely as the time passed. I used to call home and
speak to my parents every week using cheap international phone
cards. Two years passed, two years of Burgers at McDonald's and
pizzas and discos and 2 years watching the foreign exchange
rate getting happy whenever the Rupee value went down.

Finally I decided to get married. Told my parents that I have
only 10 days of holidays and everything must be done within
these 10 days. I got my ticket booked in the cheapest flight.
Was jubilant and was actually enjoying hopping for gifts for
all my friends back home. If I miss anyone then there will be
talks. After reaching home I spent home one week going through
all the photographs of girls and as the time was getting
shorter I was forced to select one candidate.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

In-laws told me, to my surprise, that I would have to get
married in 2-3 days, as I will not get anymore holidays. After
the marriage, it was time to return to USA, after giving some
money to my parents and telling the neighbors to look after
them, we returned to USA.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

My wife enjoyed this country for about two months and then she
started feeling lonely. The frequency of calling Pakistan
increased to twice in a week sometimes 3 times a week. Our
savings started diminishing.

After two more years we started to
have kids. Two lovely kids, a boy and a girl, were gifted to us
by the almighty. Every time I spoke to my parents, they asked
me to come to Pakistan so that they can see their grand-children.
Every year I decide to go to Pakistan… But part work part
monetary conditions prevented it. Years went by and visiting
Pakistan was a distant dream.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

Then suddenly one day I got a
message that my parents were seriously sick. I tried but I
couldn't get any holidays and thus could not go to Pakistan ... The
next message I got was my parents had passed away and as there
was no one to do the last rights the society members had done
whatever they could. I was depressed. My parents had passed
away without seeing their grand children.

After couple more years passed away, much to my children's
dislike and my wife's joy we returned to Pakistan to settle down.
I started to look for a suitable property, but to my dismay my
savings were short and the property prices had gone up during
all these years. I had to return to the USA...

My wife refused to come back with me and my children refused to
stay in Pakistan... My 2 children and I returned to USA after
promising my wife I would be back for good after two years.
Time passed by, my daughter decided to get married to an
American and my son was happy living in USA... I decided that
had enough and wound-up every thing and returned to Pakistan... I
had just enough money to buy a decent 02 bedroom flat in a
well-developed locality.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

Now I am 60 years old and the only time I go out of the flat is
for the routine visit to the nearby Mosque. My faithful wife
has also left me and gone to the holy abode.
Sometimes

I wondered was it worth all this?
My father, even after staying in Pakistan,
Had a house to his name and I too have
the same nothing more.

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

I lost my parents and children for just ONE EXTRA BEDROOM.
Looking out from the window I see a lot of children dancing.
This damned cable TV has spoiled our new generation and these
children are losing their values and culture because of it. I
get occasional cards from my children asking I am alright. Well
at least they remember me.

Now perhaps after I die it will be the neighbors again who will
be performing my last rights, God Bless them.
But the question
still
remains 'was all this worth it?'
I am still searching for an answer.................!!!
START THINKING
IS IT JUST FOR ONE EXTRA BEDROOM???
LIFE IS BEYOND THIS …..DON'T JUST LEAVE YOUR LIFE ……..
START LIVING IT …….
LIVE IT AS YOU WANT IT TO BE …(Anonymous)

Story of a Pakistani Living in USA

Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother

Dear Parents
*Spend maximum time with your daughter/(s)* -

Here is why

Cute Letter from a newly married girl to her mother

Dear mom,

*Like every normal girl, I was excited about marriage right from my childhood days. I never thought beyond the time that I would spend happily with my prince charming.*

*But today when I am married, I realize that marriage is not all roses. It’s not just about being with your beloved and having a gala time. There is so much more to it. It comes with its own share of responsibilities, duties, sacrifices and compromises*.

*I can’t wake up anytime I want to*.
*I am expected to be up and ready before everyone else in the family*.
*I can’t laze around in my pyjamas throughout the day*.
*I am expected to be presentable every time*.
*I can’t just go out anytime I want to*.
*I am expected to be sensitive to the needs of the family*.
*I just can’t hit the bed anytime I want to*.
*I am expected to be active and around the family*.
*I can’t expect to be treated like a princess but am supposed to take care of everyone else in the family*.

*And then I think to myself, ‘why did I get married at all?’ I was happier with you, mom. Sometimes I think of coming back to you and getting pampered again*.

*I want to come home to my favourite food cooked by you every evening after a nice outing with friends*. *I want to sleep on your laps like I have no worry in this world. But then I suddenly realize, had you not got married and made such sacrifices in your life, I wouldn’t have had so many wonderful* *memories to hang on to. And suddenly, the purpose of all this becomes clear- to return the same comfort, peace and happiness to my new family that I got from you*.

*And I am sure that as time would pass, I would start loving this life equally as you do. Thank you mom for all the sacrifices and compromises you made. They give me the strength to do the same. Love you*.

*It's an excellent article for all daughters*

*Do not forget to Share with ladies... respect all ladies and girls beside u as they make the world beautiful for u to live in*.

*Daughters are like music in the house..*

*When she speaks*,
*Speaks without a break*
& *everyone says*,
*"Be quiet for a while* "
*When she is silent*,
mother says,
" *Are you sick*"

*Father says*,
*"Why there is no noise in the house*"

*and when she is married, all says*,
*"We feel as there's no light in the house"*

*She is the real non stop music..*

*Dedicated to emotional, cute, pretty, sweet & sincere girls*

*That's You..*
*That's a Girl,..*